How much should we trust somebody we don't know?
Now the other day I said that you should give it a go, and i thought wow, i have met someone who really seems decent.
He was so lovely and genuine, like no guy i had ever met before, usually they are straight forward, and make it obvious they want sex. Now this guy, was sly. (rhym ;) We talked every day for 9/10 weeks.. every single day none stop, even when he went to Kuwait for 2 weeks, he mailed me when he got there & i thought, do you know what, this guy isn't like the rest.
After these 9 weeks, we had never spoken on the phone, i decided to ring him on a drunken night and he spent £40 to come in a taxi to my house at 4 in the morning, i thought 'aww that's so nice of him'
I genuinely did think this guy was different.
Now i have been single for 5 years and i find it very hard to commit to anyone, but with this guy, i was considering changing that. I thought he was someone i could finally start a relationship with.
Now everything was fine, up until 2 days after he had stayed at mine (i would like to point out at this point - nothing happened apart from cuddling!) he then started to ignore me.
Now as we had been speaking EVERY day for so long, i thought it was a bit strange, but he then said it was because he had been busy sorting out moving to kuwait, so i thought fair enough, that seems genuine. Up untill today.
My friends rang me and said 'Louisa, i'm not being funny but i'm sure i've just seen that boy you were with, with another girl. He saw me and went bright red, and i know it was him' - Now this girl knew what he looked like because she came to my house when he was here.
I said no, it might just be his sister or a close friend up untill she said 'but they were holding hands over the table' - at this moment, my heart sank and i felt the sudden urge to just laugh. I still couldn't believe them, so they told me to ring him and ring them back, so i did.
He got his phone out of his pocket, looked at it, pressed a button, said something to her, and put it back in his pocked - this must have been true, he didn't answer to me.
So there we have it, said boy has recieved an email telling him that i was stupid to be naive and looks can be decieving, i know why he wasn't talking to me, and told him to have a nice life in Kuwait.
Moral of this story i think - trust nobody. Or atleast don't trust people who seem to be too good to be true, chances are, they probably are! Who was he to try and play me off like that? I personally think i'm worth a lot more, so i will deffinately be more curious and more defensive from now on!
Anyone else had this kind of thing? I don't know how to feel :(